"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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zinc4

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not good for best results if you are really stoned...but can be fun if you don't get paranoid easily...i don't smoke anymore but anyone saying weed and women don't mix are crazy....i have had some of the best sex in my life high as hell...it's like you are f^cking her inside a movie and banging every square inch of her body....and the orgasms for me last much longer...weed makes both food and sex amazing in my experience..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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great posts

exactly what i was looking for since i didnt ask if i should quit weed or not thanks for the help fellas but can you explain ace pot smoker?
 

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bigneil:
Weed and women don't mix.
zinc4:
i don't smoke anymore but anyone saying weed and women don't mix are crazy....i have had some of the best sex in my life high as hell...it's like you are f^cking her inside a movie and banging every square inch of her body....and the orgasms for me last much longer...weed makes both food and sex amazing in my experience..
I agree with both of you. Weed doesn't mix with game (I forget everything), but it does mix with doggy style. The one time it does mix with game are stoner chicks.
 

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2 situations it works for me:

1. if me and the girl are both high/smoked together (already been talked about)

2. if im pretty drunk when i go to smoke. then it gives me this awesome burst of euphoria, I come back to the party ready to dance and talk to women (for a while, before I slow down)
 

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I use to be a pothead, until I realize I needed it for everything, and it was making me overweight and lazy. Haven't done it since 2006, and won't go back to it ever again, weed is not a miracle drug, if anything it is a crutch for thousands of people out there that think they need it to improve them, when actually its all in the persons mind when their high.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Fatal Jay said:
I use to be a pothead, until I realize I needed it for everything, and it was making me overweight and lazy. Haven't done it since 2006, and won't go back to it ever again, weed is not a miracle drug, if anything it is a crutch for thousands of people out there that think they need it to improve them, when actually its all in the persons mind when their high.

HEY take your negativity out of here i dont see an answer to my question if you have nothing to say about my question then dont comment men ... for fcuk sakes im sick and tired of this bs if you dont like weed is your choice idc man but dont feed me no bull**** just so you can feel better i have no problem with it....
 

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Espi said:
You should experiment for yourself, though. Everyone's unique. See how it affects you and go from there.

Will do and i will report back what happens...
 

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Dunno. I did it one time. Talked all metaphysical and basically explained the spirit realm to a girl I had met...
She's a bit of a weirdo as well, though.
Worked out. Now she's on my jock 24/7 and it's kind of crazy.
I wouldn't say that works with every girl, though.
 

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Just depends if you can handle your ****. ;) That's it. As long as you don't close up, you could talk about anything. The two of you are high.

SOME kids can sarge high whether they're pursuing stoner chicks or not. But these aren't common. Pot affects different people in different ways. In extroverts, it doesn't really slow them down. Anyone who's a thinker, though, usually clams up if they don't pace themselves.

Now, don't think you'll ever come off as intelligent and witty when you're real high, but if they like to smoke, too, it's not like their expectations are going to be in that field anyway when the both of you are lit.
 

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Its hard...because when I'm high I take about stuff that is irrelevant...

On top of that your eyes will be low and red which unless she is a stoner girl is not attractive at all
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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