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Talking to friend's ex-girlfriend...yes or no?

gravityeyelids

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Okay so i met this girl off tinder...and right off the bat she was talking to me a bunch and told me to text her...replying very fast etc. I realized she was from my hometown and told her that. She asked where I went to high school, i told her (not the same as her). She asked my which class i was....then she asked me if i knew any of the [last name]'s. We'll call the last name Smith for the purpose of this convo

I knew of a few people that went to my high school by Smith, so i told her i had met Katherine Smith...She asked me if i knew nick or taylor Smith. I realized I had partied with Taylor (guy name) several times in high school. He kind of dropped off the map when he got a GF and me and my friends were kind of pissed we lost touch with him.

So i searched this girl on facebook and realized she was the girl who dated taylor, for a few years. Now i've partied with Taylor a few times. I guess i would consider him a friend, and i would certainly say hello if I saw him. However he partied with the same group of friends I did. To be honest I feel weird talking to his ex-GF and trying to get her to sleep with me.

Is this feeling justified or should a just say screw it. I mean people who know each other date each others' ex's frequently...thats how people meet. I know this one girl (a good friend of mine), who's dated 3 of my close friends...and they're all reasonably cool with each other...
 

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Alvafe

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you don't have any contact with this friend of yours, he droped you guys for her, I don't see much friendly convos happening, and hey as long she want to open her to you go ahead, I don't know if hse is worthy to be in a LTR but as long she make you stand ready go for it.
 

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This is just purely my observation as an outsider and what I read but he doesn't really sound like much of a friend. More like a casual acquaintance. I say definitely go for her.
 

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I guess if you've lost contact with him and aren't that close then it should be fair game to date his ex
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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