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So... I had a friend he is married, and he is also kind of intelectual guy. But we had one conversation that just showed me to not keep him around.

We started talking about feminism, because he become annoyed that I said him I'm enjoying being single.

I positioned myself like that: Hey man, I practice respect above everything, I don't hate people or women... In fact I love women... The only thing I don't agree is with that feminism ideology... For me it's just too extreme and full of hate, and as you said men do a lot of sh1t with women during our history, I don't think this is going to solve anything. Anyways, I got your point.

Then, he sent me a article from a leftist media that saids: Femicide cases increase 76% in the 1st quarter of 2019 in SP (São Paulo); number of women victims of homicide falls. It's from "Globo" idk if anyone knows it here in brazil... but their news are extremely leftist and extremely nonsense.

So I ask him about the cases where men were false accused by women. He said those are only specific cases.

Also he said we men just treat women like objects. I didn't even waste my time answering that!! LOL

Just replied: Yes man, that's why I took respect so seriously. I try to learn and use it everyday in my life.

He said he needs to go, then told me that we cannot feel superior than someone, saying things to show we are superior. WTF?? I just said I value respect above any ideology.

I've had some experiences talking feminists. They cannot have healthy debate. In any point I've made a offense... but he still felt offended because I did not agree (but said that respect that point of view) with those ideals!

Sometimes I got really affraid of that. What kind of thing someone can make with so much hate? Like a woman said a to me one time: "I'm feminist, and my goal is to cut off all men's penises, that's why I'm on Tinder". hahahahah... And she was serious about that!
And if she can't physically cut them off she will cuck them and damage their respect.
 

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That cucked and downtrodden dude. The beaten down sexless dog he is will go at extreme measure to damage your relationship and make it like his.
Yes man!

I've seem a lot of people doing that... They come at me and start telling how sad I will be if I stay single! hahaha... Funny fact is that as I'm single for some time, things are working way better... having more energy, motivation and this peaceful feeling arriving of friday without te commitment to watch netflix with girlfriend. My friends and weekend are about studying, working out and I take some time off to have some fun or going out.

My dad use to do that... but now he is becoming worse... his defamation campaign are becoming really serious. But the think is that now I'm focused and working to move myself far away from this.

Sometimes I feel sad, but generally I'm feeling way more happy and proactive. I take back that energy to work hard on my projects and ideas... I'm happy that I took that decision!
 

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Yes man!

I've seem a lot of people doing that... They come at me and start telling how sad I will be if I stay single! hahaha... Funny fact is that as I'm single for some time, things are working way better... having more energy, motivation and this peaceful feeling arriving of friday without te commitment to watch netflix with girlfriend. My friends and weekend are about studying, working out and I take some time off to have some fun or going out.

My dad use to do that... but now he is becoming worse... his defamation campaign are becoming really serious. But the think is that now I'm focused and working to move myself far away from this.

Sometimes I feel sad, but generally I'm feeling way more happy and proactive. I take back that energy to work hard on my projects and ideas... I'm happy that I took that decision!
Dad wanted you as a beat down cuck?
 
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Dad wanted you as a beat down cuck?
It seems! He says that I should get married and follow his traditional life example... The only path to be happy. Interesting fact: he and my mother have weird and heavy discussions/fights every day... Im guessing if that is his meaning of happiness!

Also he feel so much pleasure demonizing me to people around... I heard so many stupid things. Some one those things were even some serious accusations... But you know, words don't prove much... If they want to believe, good to know who I should keep around or not.

When someone feel miserable, they have to make everyone feel miserable.
 

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It seems! He says that I should get married and follow his traditional life example... The only path to be happy. Interesting fact: he and my mother have weird and heavy discussions/fights every day... Im guessing if that is his meaning of happiness!

Also he feel so much pleasure demonizing me to people around... I heard so many stupid things. Some one those things were even some serious accusations... But you know, words don't prove much... If they want to believe, good to know who I should keep around or not.

When someone feel miserable, they have to make everyone feel miserable.
not that, you guys need to undertand, misery loves company, if people make a choice they will sell that as a good choice, or something you need to do, if you are against, or worse, call it as being stupid, you are now calling what he choose as stupid and by proxy thenselfs, hence why who are single defend the single life, and married defend the married life.

not many have any self awareness of telling you don't do such is a fool thing, I did once, and most of time they only do so after they failed, with could also just he being bitter for failing and not wanting to see someone he know succed


now for your own case, why are you still even talking with him? ignore and move on, find a better place a new job and disapear, most guys need to understand the most basic thing in your life, if people are not adding to your life, you leave, even if that mean it will create a disconfort or fear of change, sometimes you are so afraid to be better, look for better things you hold on what you have, even if that is a miserable thing

little story, translation problems can happen

a wiseman was traveling with his pupil, duing it he find a small pretty shaken shack, with one little old cow close to it, wanted to know if anyone did live that, so he goes and ask if anyone is there, then a pretty weak and slim guys shows up and start to talk with him, he tells him his life is pretty hard they only have that little cow to support him and his family (wife and 3 small kids), you could see and notice he was pretty poor, during that its was almost night and the slim guy offered then a hoof for teh night and shared a little of they had.

they spend the night, and in the morning before anyone else was awake the wise man and pupil leaves, to continue his travels, but before leaving teh wiase men told his pupil to take the cow over the hill and to her down there, the pupil of course refused, and it wsa also not a way to pay this family for letting then stay, the wiseman told him to not question him and do so, and in the end teh pupil do what was told him to do.

after some years, the wiseman and his pupil was back in the same lands, course the pupil was curious about what did happen to that family and asked his master to see then, they started to move there and things was a lot diferent the little shack was not there but now a huge house, the barren land around now was full of crops and even had several head of cattle too, the pupil feeling guilty, see this all he thought the family was moved or worse died, the wiseman again go there to talk with the owner, and to teh pupil surprise it was the small slim men from that shack, the men now a lot more healthy and stronger was surprise to the then again and then they asked what did happen for all this prosperity he is having now.

the men said, my friend after you leave I found out our little cow walk over the hill and fall to her dead, after that since we had no otherway to survive I had to work harder and learn how to deal with the land, after several hours of hard work and year I could build this all

The Idea of the story is telling you then sometimes, the little you have is holding you back, and the best you can do is letting it go and search for better things
 

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It seems! He says that I should get married and follow his traditional life example... The only path to be happy. Interesting fact: he and my mother have weird and heavy discussions/fights every day... Im guessing if that is his meaning of happiness!

Also he feel so much pleasure demonizing me to people around... I heard so many stupid things. Some one those things were even some serious accusations... But you know, words don't prove much... If they want to believe, good to know who I should keep around or not.

When someone feel miserable, they have to make everyone feel miserable.
Habe you read some of those cuck stories? Guys are considered sexually inadequate and take pride in cleaning his slvt wife after getting emptied into by his friends and peers.
 

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not that, you guys need to undertand, misery loves company, if people make a choice they will sell that as a good choice, or something you need to do, if you are against, or worse, call it as being stupid, you are now calling what he choose as stupid and by proxy thenselfs, hence why who are single defend the single life, and married defend the married life.

not many have any self awareness of telling you don't do such is a fool thing, I did once, and most of time they only do so after they failed, with could also just he being bitter for failing and not wanting to see someone he know succed
Agree with that!

What I wanted to mean with stupid was what he is telling and the way he approach me. I think each one can be happy being single or married, is a matter of tastes and beliefs. And that's something I always try to pay attention, cause it's really not good to defend that only your idea is the best one. Maybe he's just doing that... In his mind, being married is the only way to be happy, and don't have the aware that each one can be happy in different way.

now for your own case, why are you still even talking with him? ignore and move on, find a better place a new job and disapear, most guys need to understand the most basic thing in your life, if people are not adding to your life, you leave, even if that mean it will create a disconfort or fear of change, sometimes you are so afraid to be better, look for better things you hold on what you have, even if that is a miserable thing
I've only talk to him in my job, as I work in his company... Personally I dont visit my parents anymore and have zero contact. But he still have some power to go on his company and pretend he wants to make a job meeting... but then, the mess starts.

But now that my mind is getting better, I'm sending my curriculum to a lot of companies and trying to find something for me. I'm going after those things in all my free time.

Sideway I'm about to decide an idea about reselling supplements or make a private label. It may be a good thing here in Brazil, as people are spending a lot of money with that. I'm doing all calculations and analyzing it those days... Until now, it's been a good choice.

I'm searching for a new place to live, cause this house is in his name... So he use that when he wanna threat me. I'm considering some options right now... It's kind expensive, but I'm gonna find something good.


little story, translation problems can happen

a wiseman was traveling with his pupil, duing it he find a small pretty shaken shack, with one little old cow close to it, wanted to know if anyone did live that, so he goes and ask if anyone is there, then a pretty weak and slim guys shows up and start to talk with him, he tells him his life is pretty hard they only have that little cow to support him and his family (wife and 3 small kids), you could see and notice he was pretty poor, during that its was almost night and the slim guy offered then a hoof for teh night and shared a little of they had.

they spend the night, and in the morning before anyone else was awake the wise man and pupil leaves, to continue his travels, but before leaving teh wiase men told his pupil to take the cow over the hill and to her down there, the pupil of course refused, and it wsa also not a way to pay this family for letting then stay, the wiseman told him to not question him and do so, and in the end teh pupil do what was told him to do.

after some years, the wiseman and his pupil was back in the same lands, course the pupil was curious about what did happen to that family and asked his master to see then, they started to move there and things was a lot diferent the little shack was not there but now a huge house, the barren land around now was full of crops and even had several head of cattle too, the pupil feeling guilty, see this all he thought the family was moved or worse died, the wiseman again go there to talk with the owner, and to teh pupil surprise it was the small slim men from that shack, the men now a lot more healthy and stronger was surprise to the then again and then they asked what did happen for all this prosperity he is having now.

the men said, my friend after you leave I found out our little cow walk over the hill and fall to her dead, after that since we had no otherway to survive I had to work harder and learn how to deal with the land, after several hours of hard work and year I could build this all

The Idea of the story is telling you then sometimes, the little you have is holding you back, and the best you can do is letting it go and search for better things
This story is really amazing, I've read that some days ago... I'm thinking a lot about that!
 

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Habe you read some of those cuck stories? Guys are considered sexually inadequate and take pride in cleaning his slvt wife after getting emptied into by his friends and peers.
Yep! There is also this subreddit: https://www.reddit.com/r/RealCheatingWifeTales/

Some crazy stories haha

I have a friend that fckd a woman and her husband liked to look on a small hole in the wall she having sex with strangers. It's like a scene of the Casanova movie... Really weird that! It seems a painful and perverse pleasure! Can't understand that.
 
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