"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Colinski282

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So long long story short i meet a chik at work, get her number and got to know her. However would never meet up, classified her as an attention ***** and let our thing be whatever because i didnt wanna burn bridges.
Soooo i put up with this bs, yes it was stupid and weak of me, but i did it anyways. Now she calls and says hey im in port arthur lets meet up. So she comes over and she brings her friend, obviously for mental support.

So our meeting was nice, she was hott as i remebered a good 7 maybe 8. There were really no awkward moments, and i knocked on her instead of playing sweet. The thing is i tried to kiss her and it didnt work, so later i tried to touch her hair and to my suprise she didnt let me. Im confused and kinda wondering how to take this. She seemed sweet but uncomfortable
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She is using you for attention, ie look how I got this guy lapdog that jumps when I crook a finger.
 
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Originally posted by Colinski282
...There were really no awkward moments,...

Really? The kiss test (as it's called) and the attempted kino must've been awkward. But - hey - that's why you do them, to see what reaction you get; it let's you know where things are.

...The thing is i tried to kiss her and it didnt work, so later i tried to touch her hair and to my suprise she didnt let me. Im confused and kinda wondering how to take this.

Rejection. You're just friends. No, maybe it's just acquaintances. No more. Never will be anything more, probably.

You tested and got results like you're supposed to do. Well done.

She seemed sweet but uncomfortable Good - you're reading 'em better. Sweetness has nothing to do with anything here, though.
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