"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Talking six months never seen...till tonight

Colinski282

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So long long story short i meet a chik at work, get her number and got to know her. However would never meet up, classified her as an attention ***** and let our thing be whatever because i didnt wanna burn bridges.
Soooo i put up with this bs, yes it was stupid and weak of me, but i did it anyways. Now she calls and says hey im in port arthur lets meet up. So she comes over and she brings her friend, obviously for mental support.

So our meeting was nice, she was hott as i remebered a good 7 maybe 8. There were really no awkward moments, and i knocked on her instead of playing sweet. The thing is i tried to kiss her and it didnt work, so later i tried to touch her hair and to my suprise she didnt let me. Im confused and kinda wondering how to take this. She seemed sweet but uncomfortable
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Centaurion

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She is using you for attention, ie look how I got this guy lapdog that jumps when I crook a finger.
 

TesuqueRed

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Originally posted by Colinski282
...There were really no awkward moments,...

Really? The kiss test (as it's called) and the attempted kino must've been awkward. But - hey - that's why you do them, to see what reaction you get; it let's you know where things are.

...The thing is i tried to kiss her and it didnt work, so later i tried to touch her hair and to my suprise she didnt let me. Im confused and kinda wondering how to take this.

Rejection. You're just friends. No, maybe it's just acquaintances. No more. Never will be anything more, probably.

You tested and got results like you're supposed to do. Well done.

She seemed sweet but uncomfortable Good - you're reading 'em better. Sweetness has nothing to do with anything here, though.
 
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