"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So long long story short i meet a chik at work, get her number and got to know her. However would never meet up, classified her as an attention ***** and let our thing be whatever because i didnt wanna burn bridges.
Soooo i put up with this bs, yes it was stupid and weak of me, but i did it anyways. Now she calls and says hey im in port arthur lets meet up. So she comes over and she brings her friend, obviously for mental support.

So our meeting was nice, she was hott as i remebered a good 7 maybe 8. There were really no awkward moments, and i knocked on her instead of playing sweet. The thing is i tried to kiss her and it didnt work, so later i tried to touch her hair and to my suprise she didnt let me. Im confused and kinda wondering how to take this. She seemed sweet but uncomfortable
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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She is using you for attention, ie look how I got this guy lapdog that jumps when I crook a finger.
 
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Originally posted by Colinski282
...There were really no awkward moments,...

Really? The kiss test (as it's called) and the attempted kino must've been awkward. But - hey - that's why you do them, to see what reaction you get; it let's you know where things are.

...The thing is i tried to kiss her and it didnt work, so later i tried to touch her hair and to my suprise she didnt let me. Im confused and kinda wondering how to take this.

Rejection. You're just friends. No, maybe it's just acquaintances. No more. Never will be anything more, probably.

You tested and got results like you're supposed to do. Well done.

She seemed sweet but uncomfortable Good - you're reading 'em better. Sweetness has nothing to do with anything here, though.
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