"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So long long story short i meet a chik at work, get her number and got to know her. However would never meet up, classified her as an attention ***** and let our thing be whatever because i didnt wanna burn bridges.
Soooo i put up with this bs, yes it was stupid and weak of me, but i did it anyways. Now she calls and says hey im in port arthur lets meet up. So she comes over and she brings her friend, obviously for mental support.

So our meeting was nice, she was hott as i remebered a good 7 maybe 8. There were really no awkward moments, and i knocked on her instead of playing sweet. The thing is i tried to kiss her and it didnt work, so later i tried to touch her hair and to my suprise she didnt let me. Im confused and kinda wondering how to take this. She seemed sweet but uncomfortable
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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She is using you for attention, ie look how I got this guy lapdog that jumps when I crook a finger.
 
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Originally posted by Colinski282
...There were really no awkward moments,...

Really? The kiss test (as it's called) and the attempted kino must've been awkward. But - hey - that's why you do them, to see what reaction you get; it let's you know where things are.

...The thing is i tried to kiss her and it didnt work, so later i tried to touch her hair and to my suprise she didnt let me. Im confused and kinda wondering how to take this.

Rejection. You're just friends. No, maybe it's just acquaintances. No more. Never will be anything more, probably.

You tested and got results like you're supposed to do. Well done.

She seemed sweet but uncomfortable Good - you're reading 'em better. Sweetness has nothing to do with anything here, though.
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