“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Talking over the phone for hours

Alpheta

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How deadly is this to a relationship?

I have a ldr and am on the phone/facetiming my gf for about 3-4 hours average every other day.

Whats the best way to go about it?Does this kill attraction?
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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It's Not the Phone Time That's Deadly to the Relationship

It's the distance and the lacking of seeing each other that's going to kill the relationship. You should end this effed up and halfed assed situation now.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
It's the distance and the lacking of seeing each other that's going to kill the relationship. You should end this effed up and halfed assed situation now.
so in your opinion, ldr can never work?
 

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LDR never work. I just got out of one. I was dumped. It is the distance that will eventually lead to a dumping by you or her. I will say this. I will never involve myself in an LDR again.
 

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Alpheta said:
so in your opinion, ldr can never work?
It can never work because it defeats the purpose of a relationship which is to spend time together face to face.

Physical needs can't be met so the relationship is doomed to fail.
 

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I've been there.

It works if both of you are really into each other AND it is just temporary, I mean, you're distant for a specific amount of time: 1 month, 4 months, 1 year...and then any of you move to be with the other.

Also, you have to be sure that either you or her are willing to move...because if not, then it doesnt make any sense.
You have to have a plan like: "well, after X months I will move to be with her", or "in X months she will be back".

I've seen couples being in a LDR for YEARS, just to break up in the end. This is not what I mean. I mean that if you're gonna be in this situation for a year or so max, it can work. But do not be there for years and years.

And yes, I also spent a lot of time on skype talking to my girl, but it did not annoy me. Besides, if I decreased the amount of time we talked on skype, she got upset lol.
It was like at least 1 hour a day, to a max of around 3 hours, but we were distant just for 6-7 months, and visited each other every month or month and a half.
 
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