"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Talking about the women of your past...

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What do you guys do? I have been told you can talk about them but just be brief and positive about it.

But, Doc Love and Corey Wayne are saying these types of things like inject humor and dont answer.

Some women think most guys only date so they can tell their buddies what happened(Can you imagine ?). During the interview, if she presses you for an answer or says you are playing games, just smile and ask her, “Do you think it is proper for a gentleman to talk about other women on such a personal basis?” - then follow in a high pitched feminine bitchy-tone, “After all, it is a small world?” If she is structured, and/or has low Interest Level, she will blow a cork! If she is flexible and has high Interest Level, she will respect your wishes, laugh(because your bantering is working), and say to yourself, “I’ll get it out of him later!” This is her test. Isn’t this fun?

What do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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marmel75

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Interview? You are doing it all wrong if that's happening. Take them to a place that has darts or pool and spend at least half the date doing that. It's a hell of a lot more fun and will usually get you a lot further than having some lame ass conversation.
 
dustmuffin

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Never answer directly about past women. I have even been so blunt as to tell women its none of their business. If they get angry tough. They can kiss my ass.
 
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Honestly I don't care what happened in the past is the past , all they want to know is you learned something. " great gal , just had a few flaws that ultimately went against my boundaries "

Obviously don't go in detail telling them every single thing you liked or hated about your ex.
 
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LL: "Well put it this way, HB.. The crazy ones seem to find me like the vulcher finds the dead moose.. So. Are you a vulcher ?"

HB: "no of course not. I am different!"

LL: " that's not what I heard!"

See, now you're no longer talking about your past women, you are talking about HB present and she is trying to qualify herself to you. she will get so sucked up in this that she will forget all about your past women. She's just trying not to be one of them now!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's none of their business. I don't wanna know about their past and I'm not going to tell her about my past.
 
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