"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Talking about the women of your past...

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What do you guys do? I have been told you can talk about them but just be brief and positive about it.

But, Doc Love and Corey Wayne are saying these types of things like inject humor and dont answer.

Some women think most guys only date so they can tell their buddies what happened(Can you imagine ?). During the interview, if she presses you for an answer or says you are playing games, just smile and ask her, “Do you think it is proper for a gentleman to talk about other women on such a personal basis?” - then follow in a high pitched feminine bitchy-tone, “After all, it is a small world?” If she is structured, and/or has low Interest Level, she will blow a cork! If she is flexible and has high Interest Level, she will respect your wishes, laugh(because your bantering is working), and say to yourself, “I’ll get it out of him later!” This is her test. Isn’t this fun?

What do you guys think?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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marmel75

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Interview? You are doing it all wrong if that's happening. Take them to a place that has darts or pool and spend at least half the date doing that. It's a hell of a lot more fun and will usually get you a lot further than having some lame ass conversation.
 
dustmuffin

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Never answer directly about past women. I have even been so blunt as to tell women its none of their business. If they get angry tough. They can kiss my ass.
 
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Honestly I don't care what happened in the past is the past , all they want to know is you learned something. " great gal , just had a few flaws that ultimately went against my boundaries "

Obviously don't go in detail telling them every single thing you liked or hated about your ex.
 
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LL: "Well put it this way, HB.. The crazy ones seem to find me like the vulcher finds the dead moose.. So. Are you a vulcher ?"

HB: "no of course not. I am different!"

LL: " that's not what I heard!"

See, now you're no longer talking about your past women, you are talking about HB present and she is trying to qualify herself to you. she will get so sucked up in this that she will forget all about your past women. She's just trying not to be one of them now!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It's none of their business. I don't wanna know about their past and I'm not going to tell her about my past.
 
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