"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don Juan
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OK, here's a question for all u fellas out there:
What's the best way to initiate talking about sex?
What are the best topics with it? (I don't want to be asking really explicit stuff)
Really just any tips you can give me about this, I'm comfortable with talking to any girl now about anything, dating, the lot.. anything but Sex! This apparently is quite important also, and I feel like I'm missing out on quite a big part of my game so cheers for any responses in advance!

Cheers,
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Don Juan
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Bump
Cmon guys, doesn't anybody have anything to say about this?
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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If it doesn't come up naturally, you haven't made it to the level of rapport with the girl that would merit you even considering bringing it up.
 

Teen Spirit

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Dude, you're just a young kid. Why do you need to talk about sex for?

Anyway, you shouldn't have to try and force 'sex talk' into a conversation. Like Francisco said, once you reach a certain level of rapport, it will come naturally.

If you try and force things like this, you will come across as really pervy.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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I wasn't going to touch the age thing but Teen Spirit is right. I guess being horny makes a teenage guy want to talk about things other than video games. :p
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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