"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Talking about sex.

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OK, here's a question for all u fellas out there:
What's the best way to initiate talking about sex?
What are the best topics with it? (I don't want to be asking really explicit stuff)
Really just any tips you can give me about this, I'm comfortable with talking to any girl now about anything, dating, the lot.. anything but Sex! This apparently is quite important also, and I feel like I'm missing out on quite a big part of my game so cheers for any responses in advance!

Cheers,
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bump
Cmon guys, doesn't anybody have anything to say about this?
 
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If it doesn't come up naturally, you haven't made it to the level of rapport with the girl that would merit you even considering bringing it up.
 
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Dude, you're just a young kid. Why do you need to talk about sex for?

Anyway, you shouldn't have to try and force 'sex talk' into a conversation. Like Francisco said, once you reach a certain level of rapport, it will come naturally.

If you try and force things like this, you will come across as really pervy.
 
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I wasn't going to touch the age thing but Teen Spirit is right. I guess being horny makes a teenage guy want to talk about things other than video games. :p
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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