"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Talking about sex.

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OK, here's a question for all u fellas out there:
What's the best way to initiate talking about sex?
What are the best topics with it? (I don't want to be asking really explicit stuff)
Really just any tips you can give me about this, I'm comfortable with talking to any girl now about anything, dating, the lot.. anything but Sex! This apparently is quite important also, and I feel like I'm missing out on quite a big part of my game so cheers for any responses in advance!

Cheers,
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bump
Cmon guys, doesn't anybody have anything to say about this?
 
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If it doesn't come up naturally, you haven't made it to the level of rapport with the girl that would merit you even considering bringing it up.
 
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Dude, you're just a young kid. Why do you need to talk about sex for?

Anyway, you shouldn't have to try and force 'sex talk' into a conversation. Like Francisco said, once you reach a certain level of rapport, it will come naturally.

If you try and force things like this, you will come across as really pervy.
 
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I wasn't going to touch the age thing but Teen Spirit is right. I guess being horny makes a teenage guy want to talk about things other than video games. :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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