"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Talking about sex.

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OK, here's a question for all u fellas out there:
What's the best way to initiate talking about sex?
What are the best topics with it? (I don't want to be asking really explicit stuff)
Really just any tips you can give me about this, I'm comfortable with talking to any girl now about anything, dating, the lot.. anything but Sex! This apparently is quite important also, and I feel like I'm missing out on quite a big part of my game so cheers for any responses in advance!

Cheers,
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bump
Cmon guys, doesn't anybody have anything to say about this?
 
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If it doesn't come up naturally, you haven't made it to the level of rapport with the girl that would merit you even considering bringing it up.
 
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Dude, you're just a young kid. Why do you need to talk about sex for?

Anyway, you shouldn't have to try and force 'sex talk' into a conversation. Like Francisco said, once you reach a certain level of rapport, it will come naturally.

If you try and force things like this, you will come across as really pervy.
 
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I wasn't going to touch the age thing but Teen Spirit is right. I guess being horny makes a teenage guy want to talk about things other than video games. :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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