You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
jtlancer said:Placed on bucket list. I will go out on the dance floor first
and dance like the world is ending tomorrow.
Flash mobs are choreographed.BBbardot said:it's called a flashmob...
it's set up in advance on facebook.
edit: you must be all 12 yo or totally unaware of
this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IN_YvaW505c&feature=related
watch until the end this is pretty amazing.
or this one
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9rytUeq62k
please guys promise me you won't start dancing like that cause nobody is going to follow most likely. IT's a flash mob. It's looks good on youtube but it's not really sponteinious.
Sigh, if you gonna link me to a 12 yo please make sure your info is correct, dumbass...BBbardot said:it's called a flashmob...
it's set up in advance on facebook.
edit: you must be all 12 yo or totally unaware of
this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IN_YvaW505c&feature=related
watch until the end this is pretty amazing.
or this one
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9rytUeq62k
please guys promise me you won't start dancing like that cause nobody is going to follow most likely. IT's a flash mob. It's looks good on youtube but it's not really sponteinious.
-chalengeguyfan not always. flashmob= flash mobilisation A flash mob (or flashmob)[1] is a group of people who assemble suddenly in a public place, perform an unusual and pointless act for a brief time.
also there is flashmobs where poeple just stop moving. Seems like the only constant is public place and creating surprise doing something to together when we are suposed to be strangers.