She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
jtlancer said:Placed on bucket list. I will go out on the dance floor first
and dance like the world is ending tomorrow.
Flash mobs are choreographed.BBbardot said:it's called a flashmob...
it's set up in advance on facebook.
edit: you must be all 12 yo or totally unaware of
this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IN_YvaW505c&feature=related
watch until the end this is pretty amazing.
or this one
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9rytUeq62k
please guys promise me you won't start dancing like that cause nobody is going to follow most likely. IT's a flash mob. It's looks good on youtube but it's not really sponteinious.
Sigh, if you gonna link me to a 12 yo please make sure your info is correct, dumbass...BBbardot said:it's called a flashmob...
it's set up in advance on facebook.
edit: you must be all 12 yo or totally unaware of
this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IN_YvaW505c&feature=related
watch until the end this is pretty amazing.
or this one
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v9rytUeq62k
please guys promise me you won't start dancing like that cause nobody is going to follow most likely. IT's a flash mob. It's looks good on youtube but it's not really sponteinious.
-chalengeguyfan not always. flashmob= flash mobilisation A flash mob (or flashmob)[1] is a group of people who assemble suddenly in a public place, perform an unusual and pointless act for a brief time.
also there is flashmobs where poeple just stop moving. Seems like the only constant is public place and creating surprise doing something to together when we are suposed to be strangers.