"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tales that social media bios tell/Christians

EverSure75

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Have you guys found that social bios give a pretty cool idea of what kind of woman you're dealing with?

I remember seeing a woman once and on one of her social media accounts she described herself as a single mom and part time lunatic. True to form she there weren't any surprises.

I have a date next week with one who describes herself as a child of God, Christian, Lover ....among other things. What do you make of that?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sodbuster

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IF the first words out of their mouth is "I'm a Christian" they probably aren't, unless it's in a setting where they are trying to save you. Otherwise, check for your ring after you shake their hand..... there are alot of con artists who use it
 

The Duke

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The hottest girl I ever dated was a HB9 and claimed she had a great love for God and church.
Funny part was she rarely went to church. She eventually had the nerve to tell me I wasn't "religious" enough for her. By age 40 this girl is on husband #6. At the time we dated she told me she had been divorced only twice, and lied about a 3rd one. She even cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. On the surface she sure puts on a good show tho! Complete with crosses hung on all the walls of her home!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Atom Smasher

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Anyone can call themselves a "Christian". The pure meaning of a follower of Christ has completely been lost in our culture. Most "christians" you run across are nominal "christians" only. The tell is the life they lead today and their statement of beliefs. One must be familiar with the bible in order to understand said statement.
 

PantyWhisperer

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If you're in the South and a woman is bringing that I'm a Christian thing - 2/3 of them will throw down and freak harder than any non-religious girls. IDK if it's because they think they will be "forgiven" or not but it took me a long time in the South to realize that some of these Jesus Gals are seriously game for serious sin. :)
 

Sho-No-Luv

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Anyone can call themselves a "Christian". The pure meaning of a follower of Christ has completely been lost in our culture. Most "christians" you run across are nominal "christians" only. The tell is the life they lead today and their statement of beliefs. One must be familiar with the bible in order to understand said statement.
Bam there it is, I tell people this all the time, esp when I'm talking to so called Christian's. For some reason I always get the deer in headlights look though.
 
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