"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tales that social media bios tell/Christians

EverSure75

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Have you guys found that social bios give a pretty cool idea of what kind of woman you're dealing with?

I remember seeing a woman once and on one of her social media accounts she described herself as a single mom and part time lunatic. True to form she there weren't any surprises.

I have a date next week with one who describes herself as a child of God, Christian, Lover ....among other things. What do you make of that?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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sodbuster

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IF the first words out of their mouth is "I'm a Christian" they probably aren't, unless it's in a setting where they are trying to save you. Otherwise, check for your ring after you shake their hand..... there are alot of con artists who use it
 

The Duke

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The hottest girl I ever dated was a HB9 and claimed she had a great love for God and church.
Funny part was she rarely went to church. She eventually had the nerve to tell me I wasn't "religious" enough for her. By age 40 this girl is on husband #6. At the time we dated she told me she had been divorced only twice, and lied about a 3rd one. She even cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. On the surface she sure puts on a good show tho! Complete with crosses hung on all the walls of her home!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Atom Smasher

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Anyone can call themselves a "Christian". The pure meaning of a follower of Christ has completely been lost in our culture. Most "christians" you run across are nominal "christians" only. The tell is the life they lead today and their statement of beliefs. One must be familiar with the bible in order to understand said statement.
 

PantyWhisperer

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If you're in the South and a woman is bringing that I'm a Christian thing - 2/3 of them will throw down and freak harder than any non-religious girls. IDK if it's because they think they will be "forgiven" or not but it took me a long time in the South to realize that some of these Jesus Gals are seriously game for serious sin. :)
 

Sho-No-Luv

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Anyone can call themselves a "Christian". The pure meaning of a follower of Christ has completely been lost in our culture. Most "christians" you run across are nominal "christians" only. The tell is the life they lead today and their statement of beliefs. One must be familiar with the bible in order to understand said statement.
Bam there it is, I tell people this all the time, esp when I'm talking to so called Christian's. For some reason I always get the deer in headlights look though.
 
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