"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tales that social media bios tell/Christians

EverSure75

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Have you guys found that social bios give a pretty cool idea of what kind of woman you're dealing with?

I remember seeing a woman once and on one of her social media accounts she described herself as a single mom and part time lunatic. True to form she there weren't any surprises.

I have a date next week with one who describes herself as a child of God, Christian, Lover ....among other things. What do you make of that?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sodbuster

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IF the first words out of their mouth is "I'm a Christian" they probably aren't, unless it's in a setting where they are trying to save you. Otherwise, check for your ring after you shake their hand..... there are alot of con artists who use it
 

The Duke

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The hottest girl I ever dated was a HB9 and claimed she had a great love for God and church.
Funny part was she rarely went to church. She eventually had the nerve to tell me I wasn't "religious" enough for her. By age 40 this girl is on husband #6. At the time we dated she told me she had been divorced only twice, and lied about a 3rd one. She even cheated on me with an ex boyfriend. On the surface she sure puts on a good show tho! Complete with crosses hung on all the walls of her home!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Atom Smasher

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Anyone can call themselves a "Christian". The pure meaning of a follower of Christ has completely been lost in our culture. Most "christians" you run across are nominal "christians" only. The tell is the life they lead today and their statement of beliefs. One must be familiar with the bible in order to understand said statement.
 

PantyWhisperer

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If you're in the South and a woman is bringing that I'm a Christian thing - 2/3 of them will throw down and freak harder than any non-religious girls. IDK if it's because they think they will be "forgiven" or not but it took me a long time in the South to realize that some of these Jesus Gals are seriously game for serious sin. :)
 

Sho-No-Luv

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Anyone can call themselves a "Christian". The pure meaning of a follower of Christ has completely been lost in our culture. Most "christians" you run across are nominal "christians" only. The tell is the life they lead today and their statement of beliefs. One must be familiar with the bible in order to understand said statement.
Bam there it is, I tell people this all the time, esp when I'm talking to so called Christian's. For some reason I always get the deer in headlights look though.
 
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