"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Taking the first step

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Some of us like me have be just strolling through this site looking for the answer that would help us all and change us right there and then. An answer that would open our eyes, BUT GUESS WAT?! NO SUCH ANSWER EXISTS! For all of you idiots out there that are being like i use to be nothings going to change unless you make it change. No girls going to come up to you and **** you. You have to do it yourself. Even if your feeling unconfident and feeling awful your going to have to suck it up, and do what you know what you have to do. So if you see a beautiful girl and want to talk to her remove all doubt first and think you have to do it. You have no choice, turn your pain and yearning to become a DJ into motivation and the will to do what you have to do. I woke up and realized this now it's your turn.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good point.

Unfortunately, there are those who will never work for themselves. This what separates successful men from bums; winners from losers; and of course DJs from AFC.

And if you think about it, as long as there are plenty of unmotivated losers, the aspect of being successful is just that much sweeter.

I feel if one needs to get his life together, the last thing they should be doing is posting their life story on an online forum. Read a book, get a job, and do something. There's way too much sympathy for those who can't get their lives together. Sympathy will get you no where. Life is built off of tasks and challenges.
 
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