"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Taking the first step

Rint

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Some of us like me have be just strolling through this site looking for the answer that would help us all and change us right there and then. An answer that would open our eyes, BUT GUESS WAT?! NO SUCH ANSWER EXISTS! For all of you idiots out there that are being like i use to be nothings going to change unless you make it change. No girls going to come up to you and **** you. You have to do it yourself. Even if your feeling unconfident and feeling awful your going to have to suck it up, and do what you know what you have to do. So if you see a beautiful girl and want to talk to her remove all doubt first and think you have to do it. You have no choice, turn your pain and yearning to become a DJ into motivation and the will to do what you have to do. I woke up and realized this now it's your turn.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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WC2

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Good point.

Unfortunately, there are those who will never work for themselves. This what separates successful men from bums; winners from losers; and of course DJs from AFC.

And if you think about it, as long as there are plenty of unmotivated losers, the aspect of being successful is just that much sweeter.

I feel if one needs to get his life together, the last thing they should be doing is posting their life story on an online forum. Read a book, get a job, and do something. There's way too much sympathy for those who can't get their lives together. Sympathy will get you no where. Life is built off of tasks and challenges.
 
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