"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Taking the first step

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Some of us like me have be just strolling through this site looking for the answer that would help us all and change us right there and then. An answer that would open our eyes, BUT GUESS WAT?! NO SUCH ANSWER EXISTS! For all of you idiots out there that are being like i use to be nothings going to change unless you make it change. No girls going to come up to you and **** you. You have to do it yourself. Even if your feeling unconfident and feeling awful your going to have to suck it up, and do what you know what you have to do. So if you see a beautiful girl and want to talk to her remove all doubt first and think you have to do it. You have no choice, turn your pain and yearning to become a DJ into motivation and the will to do what you have to do. I woke up and realized this now it's your turn.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good point.

Unfortunately, there are those who will never work for themselves. This what separates successful men from bums; winners from losers; and of course DJs from AFC.

And if you think about it, as long as there are plenty of unmotivated losers, the aspect of being successful is just that much sweeter.

I feel if one needs to get his life together, the last thing they should be doing is posting their life story on an online forum. Read a book, get a job, and do something. There's way too much sympathy for those who can't get their lives together. Sympathy will get you no where. Life is built off of tasks and challenges.
 
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