"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Taking the first step

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Some of us like me have be just strolling through this site looking for the answer that would help us all and change us right there and then. An answer that would open our eyes, BUT GUESS WAT?! NO SUCH ANSWER EXISTS! For all of you idiots out there that are being like i use to be nothings going to change unless you make it change. No girls going to come up to you and **** you. You have to do it yourself. Even if your feeling unconfident and feeling awful your going to have to suck it up, and do what you know what you have to do. So if you see a beautiful girl and want to talk to her remove all doubt first and think you have to do it. You have no choice, turn your pain and yearning to become a DJ into motivation and the will to do what you have to do. I woke up and realized this now it's your turn.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good point.

Unfortunately, there are those who will never work for themselves. This what separates successful men from bums; winners from losers; and of course DJs from AFC.

And if you think about it, as long as there are plenty of unmotivated losers, the aspect of being successful is just that much sweeter.

I feel if one needs to get his life together, the last thing they should be doing is posting their life story on an online forum. Read a book, get a job, and do something. There's way too much sympathy for those who can't get their lives together. Sympathy will get you no where. Life is built off of tasks and challenges.
 
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