"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Taking the Edge off, nipping, etc

Dapper Don

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The other day, unexpectedly, I ended up taking a shot of everclear around second period. All the way till lunch I felt great. Normally I'm pretty relaxed, but halfway buzzed I was extremely laidback and outgoing, I talked to everyone. That little bit just to loosen things up really helps. It gives that little push to get you right over the line into ideal DJ behavior... At least for me

What do you think? A good idea to take the occasional nip to smooth it all over, or relying too heavily on something you can't always have.

Just your opinions on mild drinking throughout the day to loosen up and be more outgoing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ShizamDaMan

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Doing drugs in school is just retarded. You're setting yourself up for some big hurt if caught.

There are other ways to relax, you shouldn't have to rely on drugs to do it for you.
 

taqueso

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Bad idea. You are setting yourself up to be an alchoholic if you start drinking throughout the day. And at school, you will no doubt be in some serious **** if/when you get caught.
Concentrate on being outgoing when you are sober, then it will be second nature. If you think you can only be outgoing when you are loaded (to whatever degree), that will become the truth.
 

Smooth as Anything

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:) Yeah man, that's the way to do it... Get drunk everytime you want to relax...

Brilliant plan... I'm going to start doing that.
 

SikWitIt

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
:) Yeah man, that's the way to do it... Get drunk everytime you want to relax...

Brilliant plan... I'm going to start doing that.


Hey it works lol, my friends like to get buzzed and Baked before we go to the club. Thers like a hella lotta people in ther whose gonna notice. Bastards didnt wanna let me in last time cause apparently ( I wasn't dressed right) i had on baggy pants, jersey and visor turned sideways.But luckly my friend had an extra shirt in his trunk so i put it on and they let me in.


Fun to do but dont make a habit of it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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