"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Taking the Edge off, nipping, etc

Dapper Don

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The other day, unexpectedly, I ended up taking a shot of everclear around second period. All the way till lunch I felt great. Normally I'm pretty relaxed, but halfway buzzed I was extremely laidback and outgoing, I talked to everyone. That little bit just to loosen things up really helps. It gives that little push to get you right over the line into ideal DJ behavior... At least for me

What do you think? A good idea to take the occasional nip to smooth it all over, or relying too heavily on something you can't always have.

Just your opinions on mild drinking throughout the day to loosen up and be more outgoing.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ShizamDaMan

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Doing drugs in school is just retarded. You're setting yourself up for some big hurt if caught.

There are other ways to relax, you shouldn't have to rely on drugs to do it for you.
 

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Bad idea. You are setting yourself up to be an alchoholic if you start drinking throughout the day. And at school, you will no doubt be in some serious **** if/when you get caught.
Concentrate on being outgoing when you are sober, then it will be second nature. If you think you can only be outgoing when you are loaded (to whatever degree), that will become the truth.
 

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:) Yeah man, that's the way to do it... Get drunk everytime you want to relax...

Brilliant plan... I'm going to start doing that.
 

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Originally posted by Smooth as Anything
:) Yeah man, that's the way to do it... Get drunk everytime you want to relax...

Brilliant plan... I'm going to start doing that.


Hey it works lol, my friends like to get buzzed and Baked before we go to the club. Thers like a hella lotta people in ther whose gonna notice. Bastards didnt wanna let me in last time cause apparently ( I wasn't dressed right) i had on baggy pants, jersey and visor turned sideways.But luckly my friend had an extra shirt in his trunk so i put it on and they let me in.


Fun to do but dont make a habit of it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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