"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Taking her virginity

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Im meeting up with this girl i met awhile and we have been talking this whole time. We are meeting this week and she tells to bring condoms and that she wants me to go back to her place and have sex. I love that she just wants to get down but I know that this will her first time. My question is what do you think of having sex with a virgin?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This reads like it's a 14 year old's writing. Dude, have you ever had sex before at all?
 

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Don't be surprised if she flakes out because she may change her mind at the last second since a girl's virginity is sacred to her.

Having sex with a virgin is ok, but there are consequences that come with it. You are going to have to do everything! This situation calls for you to be a MAN. The sex is going to be very slow at first, because it is going to take a while for her vagina to get use to it. She also will be very attached to you, so be prepared.
 

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I know I will be the one doing all the work and I will admit this does sound childish after reading it through a second time. But the general question still stands. Thanks for the responses.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Deadly_Ripped

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I have never, and probably will never, have sex with a virgin.

I am very experienced, and have gotten very used to hearing "thank you" after sex. I hate the idea that I would be a woman's first experience, because I think it's supposed to get better after your first time.

They're awkward, they put a lot of significance on it, and I prefer experienced women who aren't always apologizing and insecure about their bodies.
 

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It is a delicate & special moment for a girl when she loses her virginity.

Be very gentle at first and take charge of the situation. If you do things right and you like this chick, she'll hold on to you for a looong time. If not, then you have a FB for when you're lonely!:yes:
 

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Thanks for the responses thus far.

@Deadly Ripped: I dont have much experience myself so me and her are going be somewhat in the same boat.

@Robyn: I will try to be as gentle as I can with her.
 
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