Im meeting up with this girl i met awhile and we have been talking this whole time. We are meeting this week and she tells to bring condoms and that she wants me to go back to her place and have sex. I love that she just wants to get down but I know that this will her first time. My question is what do you think of having sex with a virgin?
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This reads like it's a 14 year old's writing. Dude, have you ever had sex before at all?
Don't be surprised if she flakes out because she may change her mind at the last second since a girl's virginity is sacred to her.
Having sex with a virgin is ok, but there are consequences that come with it. You are going to have to do everything! This situation calls for you to be a MAN. The sex is going to be very slow at first, because it is going to take a while for her vagina to get use to it. She also will be very attached to you, so be prepared.
Having sex with a virgin is ok, but there are consequences that come with it. You are going to have to do everything! This situation calls for you to be a MAN. The sex is going to be very slow at first, because it is going to take a while for her vagina to get use to it. She also will be very attached to you, so be prepared.
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I have never, and probably will never, have sex with a virgin.
I am very experienced, and have gotten very used to hearing "thank you" after sex. I hate the idea that I would be a woman's first experience, because I think it's supposed to get better after your first time.
They're awkward, they put a lot of significance on it, and I prefer experienced women who aren't always apologizing and insecure about their bodies.
I am very experienced, and have gotten very used to hearing "thank you" after sex. I hate the idea that I would be a woman's first experience, because I think it's supposed to get better after your first time.
They're awkward, they put a lot of significance on it, and I prefer experienced women who aren't always apologizing and insecure about their bodies.
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It is a delicate & special moment for a girl when she loses her virginity.
Be very gentle at first and take charge of the situation. If you do things right and you like this chick, she'll hold on to you for a looong time. If not, then you have a FB for when you're lonely!:yes:
Be very gentle at first and take charge of the situation. If you do things right and you like this chick, she'll hold on to you for a looong time. If not, then you have a FB for when you're lonely!:yes: