Im meeting up with this girl i met awhile and we have been talking this whole time. We are meeting this week and she tells to bring condoms and that she wants me to go back to her place and have sex. I love that she just wants to get down but I know that this will her first time. My question is what do you think of having sex with a virgin?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Taking her virginity
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Deadly_Ripped
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This reads like it's a 14 year old's writing. Dude, have you ever had sex before at all?
Don't be surprised if she flakes out because she may change her mind at the last second since a girl's virginity is sacred to her.
Having sex with a virgin is ok, but there are consequences that come with it. You are going to have to do everything! This situation calls for you to be a MAN. The sex is going to be very slow at first, because it is going to take a while for her vagina to get use to it. She also will be very attached to you, so be prepared.
Having sex with a virgin is ok, but there are consequences that come with it. You are going to have to do everything! This situation calls for you to be a MAN. The sex is going to be very slow at first, because it is going to take a while for her vagina to get use to it. She also will be very attached to you, so be prepared.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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I have never, and probably will never, have sex with a virgin.
I am very experienced, and have gotten very used to hearing "thank you" after sex. I hate the idea that I would be a woman's first experience, because I think it's supposed to get better after your first time.
They're awkward, they put a lot of significance on it, and I prefer experienced women who aren't always apologizing and insecure about their bodies.
I am very experienced, and have gotten very used to hearing "thank you" after sex. I hate the idea that I would be a woman's first experience, because I think it's supposed to get better after your first time.
They're awkward, they put a lot of significance on it, and I prefer experienced women who aren't always apologizing and insecure about their bodies.
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It is a delicate & special moment for a girl when she loses her virginity.
Be very gentle at first and take charge of the situation. If you do things right and you like this chick, she'll hold on to you for a looong time. If not, then you have a FB for when you're lonely!:yes:
Be very gentle at first and take charge of the situation. If you do things right and you like this chick, she'll hold on to you for a looong time. If not, then you have a FB for when you're lonely!:yes: