Im meeting up with this girl i met awhile and we have been talking this whole time. We are meeting this week and she tells to bring condoms and that she wants me to go back to her place and have sex. I love that she just wants to get down but I know that this will her first time. My question is what do you think of having sex with a virgin?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Taking her virginity
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Deadly_Ripped
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This reads like it's a 14 year old's writing. Dude, have you ever had sex before at all?
Don't be surprised if she flakes out because she may change her mind at the last second since a girl's virginity is sacred to her.
Having sex with a virgin is ok, but there are consequences that come with it. You are going to have to do everything! This situation calls for you to be a MAN. The sex is going to be very slow at first, because it is going to take a while for her vagina to get use to it. She also will be very attached to you, so be prepared.
Having sex with a virgin is ok, but there are consequences that come with it. You are going to have to do everything! This situation calls for you to be a MAN. The sex is going to be very slow at first, because it is going to take a while for her vagina to get use to it. She also will be very attached to you, so be prepared.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Deadly_Ripped
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I have never, and probably will never, have sex with a virgin.
I am very experienced, and have gotten very used to hearing "thank you" after sex. I hate the idea that I would be a woman's first experience, because I think it's supposed to get better after your first time.
They're awkward, they put a lot of significance on it, and I prefer experienced women who aren't always apologizing and insecure about their bodies.
I am very experienced, and have gotten very used to hearing "thank you" after sex. I hate the idea that I would be a woman's first experience, because I think it's supposed to get better after your first time.
They're awkward, they put a lot of significance on it, and I prefer experienced women who aren't always apologizing and insecure about their bodies.
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It is a delicate & special moment for a girl when she loses her virginity.
Be very gentle at first and take charge of the situation. If you do things right and you like this chick, she'll hold on to you for a looong time. If not, then you have a FB for when you're lonely!:yes:
Be very gentle at first and take charge of the situation. If you do things right and you like this chick, she'll hold on to you for a looong time. If not, then you have a FB for when you're lonely!:yes: