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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

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Taking Chick as a plus 1

Bingo-Player

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Got a big house party coming up and I’m allowed a plus 1

there’s going to be a wide range of girls there from hb 5’s to hb 9’s as well as a few cool guys

I’ve got a chick in mind i want to take and she’s smoking hot and would certainly turn some heads at the party but it would be our “first date” and I’m wondering if its peheraps a little too casual ?

The Party is inevitably going to go off and i was planning on getting hammered and more than likely making an ass out of myself

My question is

Shall i take her out “officially” this weekend to break the ice and build some Kino ?....... and then invite her to the party the following weekend or shall i just invite her to the party and take it from there ?

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I know this chick fairly well but haven’t seen her in around 6 months as she’s been out of town

She’s 21
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Take her on a first date first. Easy decision
 

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You at least want to have a lead on all the other sausages at the party.... Don't bring a woman you like to a party where alcohol is involved unless she has invested some time in you. THEN she's less likely to be picked up by another guy.... When alcohol is involved, anything is possible....
 

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Yea i see what you’re saying but i wasn’t particularly bothered about that

there’s only going to be about 5 or 6 guys there and they will all be busy keeping their own plates entertained
 
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