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Bingo-Player

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Got a big house party coming up and I’m allowed a plus 1

there’s going to be a wide range of girls there from hb 5’s to hb 9’s as well as a few cool guys

I’ve got a chick in mind i want to take and she’s smoking hot and would certainly turn some heads at the party but it would be our “first date” and I’m wondering if its peheraps a little too casual ?

The Party is inevitably going to go off and i was planning on getting hammered and more than likely making an ass out of myself

My question is

Shall i take her out “officially” this weekend to break the ice and build some Kino ?....... and then invite her to the party the following weekend or shall i just invite her to the party and take it from there ?

Further information

I know this chick fairly well but haven’t seen her in around 6 months as she’s been out of town

She’s 21
 

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Take her on a first date first. Easy decision
 

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You at least want to have a lead on all the other sausages at the party.... Don't bring a woman you like to a party where alcohol is involved unless she has invested some time in you. THEN she's less likely to be picked up by another guy.... When alcohol is involved, anything is possible....
 

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Yea i see what you’re saying but i wasn’t particularly bothered about that

there’s only going to be about 5 or 6 guys there and they will all be busy keeping their own plates entertained
 
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