"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Taking Chick as a plus 1

Bingo-Player

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Got a big house party coming up and I’m allowed a plus 1

there’s going to be a wide range of girls there from hb 5’s to hb 9’s as well as a few cool guys

I’ve got a chick in mind i want to take and she’s smoking hot and would certainly turn some heads at the party but it would be our “first date” and I’m wondering if its peheraps a little too casual ?

The Party is inevitably going to go off and i was planning on getting hammered and more than likely making an ass out of myself

My question is

Shall i take her out “officially” this weekend to break the ice and build some Kino ?....... and then invite her to the party the following weekend or shall i just invite her to the party and take it from there ?

Further information

I know this chick fairly well but haven’t seen her in around 6 months as she’s been out of town

She’s 21
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No.Danny

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Take her on a first date first. Easy decision
 

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You at least want to have a lead on all the other sausages at the party.... Don't bring a woman you like to a party where alcohol is involved unless she has invested some time in you. THEN she's less likely to be picked up by another guy.... When alcohol is involved, anything is possible....
 

Bingo-Player

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Yea i see what you’re saying but i wasn’t particularly bothered about that

there’s only going to be about 5 or 6 guys there and they will all be busy keeping their own plates entertained
 
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