"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Taking Chick as a plus 1

Bingo-Player

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Got a big house party coming up and I’m allowed a plus 1

there’s going to be a wide range of girls there from hb 5’s to hb 9’s as well as a few cool guys

I’ve got a chick in mind i want to take and she’s smoking hot and would certainly turn some heads at the party but it would be our “first date” and I’m wondering if its peheraps a little too casual ?

The Party is inevitably going to go off and i was planning on getting hammered and more than likely making an ass out of myself

My question is

Shall i take her out “officially” this weekend to break the ice and build some Kino ?....... and then invite her to the party the following weekend or shall i just invite her to the party and take it from there ?

Further information

I know this chick fairly well but haven’t seen her in around 6 months as she’s been out of town

She’s 21
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No.Danny

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Take her on a first date first. Easy decision
 

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You at least want to have a lead on all the other sausages at the party.... Don't bring a woman you like to a party where alcohol is involved unless she has invested some time in you. THEN she's less likely to be picked up by another guy.... When alcohol is involved, anything is possible....
 

Bingo-Player

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Yea i see what you’re saying but i wasn’t particularly bothered about that

there’s only going to be about 5 or 6 guys there and they will all be busy keeping their own plates entertained
 
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