"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Taking a ONS and keeping it going

kraytkiller

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So, ****ed this chick, but to do so had to overcome a ****load of resistance. Now its the day after and I know she felt kinda weird about it because she didnt text me like she normally would.

Whats the best way to recover this situation and turn it into something that isn't a lost-cause forget-about-her type situation?

Basically I don't want to stop talking to her, lol.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cfdagola

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kraytkiller said:
So, ****ed this chick, but to do so had to overcome a ****load of resistance. Now its the day after and I know she felt kinda weird about it because she didnt text me like she normally would.
that's called rape my friend..
 

kraytkiller

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cfdagola said:
that's called rape my friend..
Rape is when your trying to put your **** in and she screams 'No! No!'

Not being a ***** and overcoming lmr is when your pulling your **** away to tease her and she starts screaming 'No! No!'
 

LorenzoVonM

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Sometimes girls will consciously resist sex until their more primal instincts take over. When the deed is done and emotions clear they consider themselves slvts because they are programmed by society to feel that way. She may be experiencing buyer's remorse and equating that remorse with you. If that's the case then its a lost cause.

But all you know is that she didn't text you the next day which means she may or may not being feeling weird about it. Wait a couple days and then shoot her a text.
 

Dance

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This doesn't really sound like a ONS. To me, a ONS is meeting someone somewhere, then proceeding to fvck them that same night/day, then generally not have any contact with them.

This situation sounds to me, like you penetrated a friend while she was drunk and now she feels weird about it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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European-DJ

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I am terrible at keeping a real relationship with a girl, but a king at keeping girl interests after a ONS; what's my secret? I simply don't care:

After the ONS, write something like "thank you for yesterday, I was nice", if you use smileys, add a wink at the end.

Then, never be the first to contact her, unless you want sex. As simple as that, now you have a fvck buddy; but remember to care for her, ask into how she is doing and act as friends, then at night, remember to **** her good.

If she wants a relationship, trust me, she will through the card herself, If not, we'll you just got yourself an FB, and if you did terrible, atleast you fvcked her and you can move on.

Regards,
 
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