“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Taking a ONS and keeping it going

kraytkiller

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So, ****ed this chick, but to do so had to overcome a ****load of resistance. Now its the day after and I know she felt kinda weird about it because she didnt text me like she normally would.

Whats the best way to recover this situation and turn it into something that isn't a lost-cause forget-about-her type situation?

Basically I don't want to stop talking to her, lol.
 

cfdagola

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kraytkiller said:
So, ****ed this chick, but to do so had to overcome a ****load of resistance. Now its the day after and I know she felt kinda weird about it because she didnt text me like she normally would.
that's called rape my friend..
 

kraytkiller

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cfdagola said:
that's called rape my friend..
Rape is when your trying to put your **** in and she screams 'No! No!'

Not being a ***** and overcoming lmr is when your pulling your **** away to tease her and she starts screaming 'No! No!'
 

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Sometimes girls will consciously resist sex until their more primal instincts take over. When the deed is done and emotions clear they consider themselves slvts because they are programmed by society to feel that way. She may be experiencing buyer's remorse and equating that remorse with you. If that's the case then its a lost cause.

But all you know is that she didn't text you the next day which means she may or may not being feeling weird about it. Wait a couple days and then shoot her a text.
 

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This doesn't really sound like a ONS. To me, a ONS is meeting someone somewhere, then proceeding to fvck them that same night/day, then generally not have any contact with them.

This situation sounds to me, like you penetrated a friend while she was drunk and now she feels weird about it.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I am terrible at keeping a real relationship with a girl, but a king at keeping girl interests after a ONS; what's my secret? I simply don't care:

After the ONS, write something like "thank you for yesterday, I was nice", if you use smileys, add a wink at the end.

Then, never be the first to contact her, unless you want sex. As simple as that, now you have a fvck buddy; but remember to care for her, ask into how she is doing and act as friends, then at night, remember to **** her good.

If she wants a relationship, trust me, she will through the card herself, If not, we'll you just got yourself an FB, and if you did terrible, atleast you fvcked her and you can move on.

Regards,
 
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