"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Taking a ONS and keeping it going

kraytkiller

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So, ****ed this chick, but to do so had to overcome a ****load of resistance. Now its the day after and I know she felt kinda weird about it because she didnt text me like she normally would.

Whats the best way to recover this situation and turn it into something that isn't a lost-cause forget-about-her type situation?

Basically I don't want to stop talking to her, lol.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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cfdagola

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kraytkiller said:
So, ****ed this chick, but to do so had to overcome a ****load of resistance. Now its the day after and I know she felt kinda weird about it because she didnt text me like she normally would.
that's called rape my friend..
 

kraytkiller

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cfdagola said:
that's called rape my friend..
Rape is when your trying to put your **** in and she screams 'No! No!'

Not being a ***** and overcoming lmr is when your pulling your **** away to tease her and she starts screaming 'No! No!'
 

LorenzoVonM

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Sometimes girls will consciously resist sex until their more primal instincts take over. When the deed is done and emotions clear they consider themselves slvts because they are programmed by society to feel that way. She may be experiencing buyer's remorse and equating that remorse with you. If that's the case then its a lost cause.

But all you know is that she didn't text you the next day which means she may or may not being feeling weird about it. Wait a couple days and then shoot her a text.
 

Dance

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This doesn't really sound like a ONS. To me, a ONS is meeting someone somewhere, then proceeding to fvck them that same night/day, then generally not have any contact with them.

This situation sounds to me, like you penetrated a friend while she was drunk and now she feels weird about it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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European-DJ

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I am terrible at keeping a real relationship with a girl, but a king at keeping girl interests after a ONS; what's my secret? I simply don't care:

After the ONS, write something like "thank you for yesterday, I was nice", if you use smileys, add a wink at the end.

Then, never be the first to contact her, unless you want sex. As simple as that, now you have a fvck buddy; but remember to care for her, ask into how she is doing and act as friends, then at night, remember to **** her good.

If she wants a relationship, trust me, she will through the card herself, If not, we'll you just got yourself an FB, and if you did terrible, atleast you fvcked her and you can move on.

Regards,
 
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