"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Taking a girl out to an amusement park this sunday! Advice welcomed

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So this girl that I'm fairly attracted to agreed to go with me to an amusement park a few hours away.

Any tips or suggestions on how I can make this a really fun and exciting trip?

My general plan was to leave in the morning (When it's nice and cool), hang out at the park, then drive back to my house and "unwind". ;)
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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scope the place out before the date so during the date you can lead her to an isolated place and make your move. It will be tough to find a totally isolated place but a place where you can sit at (bench) and make out or behind somewhere where there is some quiet where you can talk for a bit and wham!
 

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f283000 said:
scope the place out before the date so during the date you can lead her to an isolated place and make your move. It will be tough to find a totally isolated place but a place where you can sit at (bench) and make out or behind somewhere where there is some quiet where you can talk for a bit and wham!
Sounds great. I've been there before, but I never looked for places like that, but I guess we can "explore" and when I find a suitable place we'll sit down for a drink of water ;)

And I'm a little sick right now, I just hope that I'm better so when I make my move I won't infect her lol

Gives me a legitimate excuse to use the "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you" line, because if I do, she'll get sick :)
 

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take her to the spook house, and let her cuddle up to you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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