"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Taking a girl out to an amusement park this sunday! Advice welcomed

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So this girl that I'm fairly attracted to agreed to go with me to an amusement park a few hours away.

Any tips or suggestions on how I can make this a really fun and exciting trip?

My general plan was to leave in the morning (When it's nice and cool), hang out at the park, then drive back to my house and "unwind". ;)
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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scope the place out before the date so during the date you can lead her to an isolated place and make your move. It will be tough to find a totally isolated place but a place where you can sit at (bench) and make out or behind somewhere where there is some quiet where you can talk for a bit and wham!
 

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f283000 said:
scope the place out before the date so during the date you can lead her to an isolated place and make your move. It will be tough to find a totally isolated place but a place where you can sit at (bench) and make out or behind somewhere where there is some quiet where you can talk for a bit and wham!
Sounds great. I've been there before, but I never looked for places like that, but I guess we can "explore" and when I find a suitable place we'll sit down for a drink of water ;)

And I'm a little sick right now, I just hope that I'm better so when I make my move I won't infect her lol

Gives me a legitimate excuse to use the "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you" line, because if I do, she'll get sick :)
 

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take her to the spook house, and let her cuddle up to you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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