"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Taking a girl out to an amusement park this sunday! Advice welcomed

Vice

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So this girl that I'm fairly attracted to agreed to go with me to an amusement park a few hours away.

Any tips or suggestions on how I can make this a really fun and exciting trip?

My general plan was to leave in the morning (When it's nice and cool), hang out at the park, then drive back to my house and "unwind". ;)
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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scope the place out before the date so during the date you can lead her to an isolated place and make your move. It will be tough to find a totally isolated place but a place where you can sit at (bench) and make out or behind somewhere where there is some quiet where you can talk for a bit and wham!
 

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f283000 said:
scope the place out before the date so during the date you can lead her to an isolated place and make your move. It will be tough to find a totally isolated place but a place where you can sit at (bench) and make out or behind somewhere where there is some quiet where you can talk for a bit and wham!
Sounds great. I've been there before, but I never looked for places like that, but I guess we can "explore" and when I find a suitable place we'll sit down for a drink of water ;)

And I'm a little sick right now, I just hope that I'm better so when I make my move I won't infect her lol

Gives me a legitimate excuse to use the "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you" line, because if I do, she'll get sick :)
 

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take her to the spook house, and let her cuddle up to you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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