"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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For some reason, idk why... Im really into this girl that I just met.(oh man I'm going to laugh at this some time in the future) I got to know her a bit and she is literraly my ideal girl for a gf. We both have many of the same qualities and I mean what I love to do, she would bring the same things up as well which is just crazy. Now we are just friends, but I want more than that.( please bare with me here)

You see... I'm never the kind of guy that have feelings like this for a girl, nervous to talk at times with her. Which NEVER happens when I'm talking to a girl, hot or not. I know I sound like an AFC, and won't blame you guys if you say so.

The reason why I'm making this post ia because I think I really can see myself having a really nice relationship with her, not to just lay her but a genuine bond.
I'm not sure how to tell her my feelings.

Do I just tell her directly or try and hangout with her more and then ask her out?
I know this sounds lame and AFC, I never thought I would be the one to act like this but it feels right.

Serious responses please, any that has gone through this.
I know I won't get hardly any responses but any help would be helpful.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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It does sound AFC, but I understad you. I'm certainly not the most qualified person here to answer you, but I'll give you my input.

So you seem to want this chic, but you are nervous aroundd her. In most cases, to solve it, you have to spin more plates.

There are a lot of posts on how to get out of the friendzone, see if you can find some. Never ask her to be your gf, but do act as you are not just her friend. Make her change the way she sees you. Kino more, request to go out alone etc.

Good luck!
 
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If you know her a bit, you're not in the friend zone... yet.

I really wish I could tell you exactly what to do, but you are going to have to trust your gut.

As for telling her how you feel, don't say it with words say it with your actions.
Touch her, smile at her, KISS THE GIRL for cryin out loud! If you feel this way about her chances are she feels the same about you.

One little quote to remember-

"Most girls, no matter how bold, will not be the one to make a move"

-Mr.P
 
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