"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Italia

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For some reason, idk why... Im really into this girl that I just met.(oh man I'm going to laugh at this some time in the future) I got to know her a bit and she is literraly my ideal girl for a gf. We both have many of the same qualities and I mean what I love to do, she would bring the same things up as well which is just crazy. Now we are just friends, but I want more than that.( please bare with me here)

You see... I'm never the kind of guy that have feelings like this for a girl, nervous to talk at times with her. Which NEVER happens when I'm talking to a girl, hot or not. I know I sound like an AFC, and won't blame you guys if you say so.

The reason why I'm making this post ia because I think I really can see myself having a really nice relationship with her, not to just lay her but a genuine bond.
I'm not sure how to tell her my feelings.

Do I just tell her directly or try and hangout with her more and then ask her out?
I know this sounds lame and AFC, I never thought I would be the one to act like this but it feels right.

Serious responses please, any that has gone through this.
I know I won't get hardly any responses but any help would be helpful.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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It does sound AFC, but I understad you. I'm certainly not the most qualified person here to answer you, but I'll give you my input.

So you seem to want this chic, but you are nervous aroundd her. In most cases, to solve it, you have to spin more plates.

There are a lot of posts on how to get out of the friendzone, see if you can find some. Never ask her to be your gf, but do act as you are not just her friend. Make her change the way she sees you. Kino more, request to go out alone etc.

Good luck!
 
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If you know her a bit, you're not in the friend zone... yet.

I really wish I could tell you exactly what to do, but you are going to have to trust your gut.

As for telling her how you feel, don't say it with words say it with your actions.
Touch her, smile at her, KISS THE GIRL for cryin out loud! If you feel this way about her chances are she feels the same about you.

One little quote to remember-

"Most girls, no matter how bold, will not be the one to make a move"

-Mr.P
 
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