"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Taking a break

RedSky

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Hey everyone.

I have recently been going through a really long dry spell with women.
Its been months since i last had sex or even a date and the frustration is starting to grow.

I feel the reason for this dry spell is that i'm focusing way to much on getting girl's attention, keeping them interested and so on.

So i'm considering taking a month off from chasing any girls and just following my hobbies, finishing uni work and hanging out with mates.

However i have these doubts in the back of mind bout doing this, so was wondering what you guys think?

Cheers for any advice
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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loveshogun

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Work on yourself, and do the things you love to do.

I bet if you think about it, there's a sh*t ton of things you'd love to do that don't require a woman. And once again, this is advice coming from a guy who can only keep himself from thinking about sex for the five minutes of clarity after busting a nut.

The dry spell will fix itself when you return to the game a better, cooler version of yourself.

Not to say you should ignore opportunities when they arise - but you should never give up the things that make you happy for anyone... especially someone that you've just met.

Keep at it. You first, women second.
 

Scars

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Improve yourself, and the woman will follow.

I just read a good quote recently,

"A man can have a shortage of woman if that's all he chases, but a man chasing money will never have a shortage of woman."

Focus on your happiness and you will be irresistible.

-Scars
 
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