"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Taking a break

RedSky

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Hey everyone.

I have recently been going through a really long dry spell with women.
Its been months since i last had sex or even a date and the frustration is starting to grow.

I feel the reason for this dry spell is that i'm focusing way to much on getting girl's attention, keeping them interested and so on.

So i'm considering taking a month off from chasing any girls and just following my hobbies, finishing uni work and hanging out with mates.

However i have these doubts in the back of mind bout doing this, so was wondering what you guys think?

Cheers for any advice
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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loveshogun

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Work on yourself, and do the things you love to do.

I bet if you think about it, there's a sh*t ton of things you'd love to do that don't require a woman. And once again, this is advice coming from a guy who can only keep himself from thinking about sex for the five minutes of clarity after busting a nut.

The dry spell will fix itself when you return to the game a better, cooler version of yourself.

Not to say you should ignore opportunities when they arise - but you should never give up the things that make you happy for anyone... especially someone that you've just met.

Keep at it. You first, women second.
 

Scars

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Improve yourself, and the woman will follow.

I just read a good quote recently,

"A man can have a shortage of woman if that's all he chases, but a man chasing money will never have a shortage of woman."

Focus on your happiness and you will be irresistible.

-Scars
 
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