"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Taking a break

RedSky

Don Juan
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Hey everyone.

I have recently been going through a really long dry spell with women.
Its been months since i last had sex or even a date and the frustration is starting to grow.

I feel the reason for this dry spell is that i'm focusing way to much on getting girl's attention, keeping them interested and so on.

So i'm considering taking a month off from chasing any girls and just following my hobbies, finishing uni work and hanging out with mates.

However i have these doubts in the back of mind bout doing this, so was wondering what you guys think?

Cheers for any advice
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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loveshogun

Master Don Juan
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Work on yourself, and do the things you love to do.

I bet if you think about it, there's a sh*t ton of things you'd love to do that don't require a woman. And once again, this is advice coming from a guy who can only keep himself from thinking about sex for the five minutes of clarity after busting a nut.

The dry spell will fix itself when you return to the game a better, cooler version of yourself.

Not to say you should ignore opportunities when they arise - but you should never give up the things that make you happy for anyone... especially someone that you've just met.

Keep at it. You first, women second.
 

Scars

Master Don Juan
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Improve yourself, and the woman will follow.

I just read a good quote recently,

"A man can have a shortage of woman if that's all he chases, but a man chasing money will never have a shortage of woman."

Focus on your happiness and you will be irresistible.

-Scars
 
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