"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Taking a break

RedSky

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Hey everyone.

I have recently been going through a really long dry spell with women.
Its been months since i last had sex or even a date and the frustration is starting to grow.

I feel the reason for this dry spell is that i'm focusing way to much on getting girl's attention, keeping them interested and so on.

So i'm considering taking a month off from chasing any girls and just following my hobbies, finishing uni work and hanging out with mates.

However i have these doubts in the back of mind bout doing this, so was wondering what you guys think?

Cheers for any advice
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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loveshogun

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Work on yourself, and do the things you love to do.

I bet if you think about it, there's a sh*t ton of things you'd love to do that don't require a woman. And once again, this is advice coming from a guy who can only keep himself from thinking about sex for the five minutes of clarity after busting a nut.

The dry spell will fix itself when you return to the game a better, cooler version of yourself.

Not to say you should ignore opportunities when they arise - but you should never give up the things that make you happy for anyone... especially someone that you've just met.

Keep at it. You first, women second.
 

Scars

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Improve yourself, and the woman will follow.

I just read a good quote recently,

"A man can have a shortage of woman if that's all he chases, but a man chasing money will never have a shortage of woman."

Focus on your happiness and you will be irresistible.

-Scars
 
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