mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Start at 1:30.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Take your vows seriously
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
How many millions were "trapped" into marriage? And how many babes slutted it up right to bedore the marriage.
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
My friend was broking up and going to divorce with his wife. He said she always complained about him... like arriving late at work and waking up her, working too much (as he should be spending more time with his ass in sofa looking at her face).
After talking to her... she was emotionally sad and said she was going to get her stuffs this week. Her mother called to this guy crying and telling that love don't die that way... That she likes him so much, to don't do that with her... bla bla bla.
He called me, said he was really sad... Then he just go get her and took her into his house again. He said me that seems that she is really going to change this time! #gameover
After talking to her... she was emotionally sad and said she was going to get her stuffs this week. Her mother called to this guy crying and telling that love don't die that way... That she likes him so much, to don't do that with her... bla bla bla.
He called me, said he was really sad... Then he just go get her and took her into his house again. He said me that seems that she is really going to change this time! #gameover
lamath
Master Don Juan
Sadly
This is what most men would do.....
When you dump a women you should know its for good.
Lack of conviction, getting back with her is sending the wrong message.
Bad behavioir will come back when she will know she got him back and by that time chances are getting away from her will be much harder ( they might have a house in common or kids )
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
lolz 
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Pajeet Singh
Don Juan
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Jokes aside, what are the options for men now?Surrogate mothers?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Private investigation.
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Options:
- Become smart and learn to identify patterns.
- Not getting married
- You can use private investigation as mrgoodstuff said... only if you're really up to marriage. That money could be spent with investments, travelling, having fun.
- Buy a sex doll
- Remain single, make a lot of money and when you become old, pay for a good health care. In that time, safe sex and no commitment.
- Find a bigger purpose on life (Solving universe puzzles, creating something new that helps humankind, etc)
It's kinda sad, but if you read the book "The Red Queen" by Matt Ridley you can understand a bit why those things happen. Not evil stuff... Just our nature. But society make us a favor to teach us everything wrong.
"Moreover, whether deliberately or not, the unfaithful women were having sex with their lovers at times of the month when they were most fertile " In the Folicular Phase (7 to 14)
That image is from Rollo Tomassi's book... for illustrate that phrase of the red queens book.
This is a biological explanation for that. You may say that morally, it doesn't justify but you know... We use to think that our conscious rules our life... but we are ruled by our drives. The stronger it is, more control it will have. Raising your counsciousness help of course, but I never saw a 100% proved case that someone got total control over your feelings, emotions, instinct and hormones. That can be a good life purpose, finding if there is a way for that.
Hormones, Neurochemistry... can impact our behavior.
I might be completely wrong ok? But this is the best understanding I have god in that moment. Maybe and probably it may change for me when I become old, idk what I will learn... And maybe it can serve you as a good knowledge.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
this is more true than you can possibly imagine.
I love to play along with womens cycles... its a magic insight. learn to use this biological info to your advantage.
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
This is very interesting.
One thing I've questioned myself: What if the woman is taking contraceptive pills? As she is not ovulating anymore... This rule is still true?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
Yes
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Is there any explanation for that? Something that support the idea that even with contraceptive, it can happen the same way.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
The hormones still flow, the body still thinks the egg is there...
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
What strategies are you employing and when?