mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Start at 1:30.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Take your vows seriously
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
How many millions were "trapped" into marriage? And how many babes slutted it up right to bedore the marriage.
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
My friend was broking up and going to divorce with his wife. He said she always complained about him... like arriving late at work and waking up her, working too much (as he should be spending more time with his ass in sofa looking at her face).
After talking to her... she was emotionally sad and said she was going to get her stuffs this week. Her mother called to this guy crying and telling that love don't die that way... That she likes him so much, to don't do that with her... bla bla bla.
He called me, said he was really sad... Then he just go get her and took her into his house again. He said me that seems that she is really going to change this time! #gameover
After talking to her... she was emotionally sad and said she was going to get her stuffs this week. Her mother called to this guy crying and telling that love don't die that way... That she likes him so much, to don't do that with her... bla bla bla.
He called me, said he was really sad... Then he just go get her and took her into his house again. He said me that seems that she is really going to change this time! #gameover
lamath
Master Don Juan
Sadly
This is what most men would do.....
When you dump a women you should know its for good.
Lack of conviction, getting back with her is sending the wrong message.
Bad behavioir will come back when she will know she got him back and by that time chances are getting away from her will be much harder ( they might have a house in common or kids )
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
lolz 
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Pajeet Singh
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Jokes aside, what are the options for men now?Surrogate mothers?
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Private investigation.
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Options:
- Become smart and learn to identify patterns.
- Not getting married
- You can use private investigation as mrgoodstuff said... only if you're really up to marriage. That money could be spent with investments, travelling, having fun.
- Buy a sex doll
- Remain single, make a lot of money and when you become old, pay for a good health care. In that time, safe sex and no commitment.
- Find a bigger purpose on life (Solving universe puzzles, creating something new that helps humankind, etc)
It's kinda sad, but if you read the book "The Red Queen" by Matt Ridley you can understand a bit why those things happen. Not evil stuff... Just our nature. But society make us a favor to teach us everything wrong.
"Moreover, whether deliberately or not, the unfaithful women were having sex with their lovers at times of the month when they were most fertile " In the Folicular Phase (7 to 14)
That image is from Rollo Tomassi's book... for illustrate that phrase of the red queens book.
This is a biological explanation for that. You may say that morally, it doesn't justify but you know... We use to think that our conscious rules our life... but we are ruled by our drives. The stronger it is, more control it will have. Raising your counsciousness help of course, but I never saw a 100% proved case that someone got total control over your feelings, emotions, instinct and hormones. That can be a good life purpose, finding if there is a way for that.
Hormones, Neurochemistry... can impact our behavior.
I might be completely wrong ok? But this is the best understanding I have god in that moment. Maybe and probably it may change for me when I become old, idk what I will learn... And maybe it can serve you as a good knowledge.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
this is more true than you can possibly imagine.
I love to play along with womens cycles... its a magic insight. learn to use this biological info to your advantage.
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
This is very interesting.
One thing I've questioned myself: What if the woman is taking contraceptive pills? As she is not ovulating anymore... This rule is still true?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
Yes
Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Is there any explanation for that? Something that support the idea that even with contraceptive, it can happen the same way.
MrWood
Master Don Juan
The hormones still flow, the body still thinks the egg is there...
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
What strategies are you employing and when?