"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Take the One Account Pledge

bigneil

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Someday soon the technology will be available that can analyze a member's posts and, by virtue of the particular adjectives they use and the frequency of word combinations, will determine which members have multiple accounts. Then, someone will post a list, grouping redundant names.

Knowing that you will eventually be exposed, are you willing to go on the record now and, on your honor, declare that you only have one Sosuave forum membership?

Should you lie and be exposed, your every previous post will be forever tarnished.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bigneil said:
Someday soon the technology will be available that can analyze a member's posts and, by virtue of the particular adjectives they use and the frequency of word combinations, will determine which members have multiple accounts. Then, someone will post a list, grouping redundant names.

Knowing that you will eventually be exposed, are you willing to go on the record now and, on your honor, declare that you only have one Sosuave forum membership?

Should you lie and be exposed, your every previous post will be forever tarnished.
It already exists... it's call Google. You just have to know how to properly use it.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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On my honor, I will never betray my badge , my integrity, my character or the public trust. I will always have the courage to hold myself and others accountable for our actions. I will always uphold the SoSuave Member Rules, my community, and the SoSuave Moderator Police. I will never be a lame troll and open more than one SoSuave account, so help me God and Beer.
 
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