"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Take the One Account Pledge

bigneil

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Someday soon the technology will be available that can analyze a member's posts and, by virtue of the particular adjectives they use and the frequency of word combinations, will determine which members have multiple accounts. Then, someone will post a list, grouping redundant names.

Knowing that you will eventually be exposed, are you willing to go on the record now and, on your honor, declare that you only have one Sosuave forum membership?

Should you lie and be exposed, your every previous post will be forever tarnished.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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bigneil said:
Someday soon the technology will be available that can analyze a member's posts and, by virtue of the particular adjectives they use and the frequency of word combinations, will determine which members have multiple accounts. Then, someone will post a list, grouping redundant names.

Knowing that you will eventually be exposed, are you willing to go on the record now and, on your honor, declare that you only have one Sosuave forum membership?

Should you lie and be exposed, your every previous post will be forever tarnished.
It already exists... it's call Google. You just have to know how to properly use it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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On my honor, I will never betray my badge , my integrity, my character or the public trust. I will always have the courage to hold myself and others accountable for our actions. I will always uphold the SoSuave Member Rules, my community, and the SoSuave Moderator Police. I will never be a lame troll and open more than one SoSuave account, so help me God and Beer.
 
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