"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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take out emotional eating and humans need very little calories to survive

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most of the time that we think we are hungry, its just emotional cravings and/or dehydration. A lot of us just want food for emotional happiness/satisfaction

i challenge anybody here to completely forget food for a day and you guys can see that you'll survive fine on 1500 calories...which is typically enough to lose 3 lbs a week

being shredded is 90% about very low calorie diet
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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3 pounds a week isn’t too much? I had read that’s you’re supposed to lose like 2 maximum so you don’t start losing muscle too.
 

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3 pounds a week isn’t too much? I had read that’s you’re supposed to lose like 2 maximum so you don’t start losing muscle too.

bro science nonsense. Muscle is very hard to gain and very hard to lose. I've lost 3-4 lbs a week with no true muscle loss


not to mention, you gain everything back very quickly in a month when you start bulking anyways
 

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most of the time that we think we are hungry, its just emotional cravings and/or dehydration. A lot of us just want food for emotional happiness/satisfaction

i challenge anybody here to completely forget food for a day and you guys can see that you'll survive fine on 1500 calories...which is typically enough to lose 3 lbs a week

being shredded is 90% about very low calorie diet
Not true. If you eat the wrong foods, you will crave food

Why are you NOW going on and on about food?
 

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Not true. If you eat the wrong foods, you will crave food

Why are you NOW going on and on about food?
well said
All calories are not equal, high protein and high fiber is best imo
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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well said
All calories are not equal, high protein and high fiber is best imo
Not true. If you eat the wrong foods, you will crave food

Why are you NOW going on and on about food?
I have friends who get shredded on horrible diets (they eat very low calorie but mostly garbage)

but yes, you're correct, it's much much easier to have a low calorie diet with lots of protein and vegetables...get leaner way faster and feel less hungry
 

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horrible diet and losing weight = losing muscle mass.
 

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horrible diet and losing weight = losing muscle mass.
nah, my friend is jacked

losing muscle mass is from not working out. If you workout hard with weights, its very hard to lose muscle
 

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Dave, when do you have time to sell cars with all the bull**** you post on this and probably other forums? Inquiring minds want to know....
 

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most of the time that we think we are hungry, its just emotional cravings and/or dehydration. A lot of us just want food for emotional happiness/satisfaction

i challenge anybody here to completely forget food for a day and you guys can see that you'll survive fine on 1500 calories...which is typically enough to lose 3 lbs a week

being shredded is 90% about very low calorie diet
I actually agree. I usually fast one day a week now and it's fairly easy to go a full day without eating, assuming you can deal with minimal discomfort.

It's amazing how little food you really need. I've found that I feel much better the LESS food I eat overall. I do make sure I always drink plenty of water, at least about 80 ozs a day. If you can do this AND eat fairly clean, you can drop fat in a hurry.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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