"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Take a chance!

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If someone told you there is no risk in an approach they are lying.

Not just for your ego but because you are making yourself a target to the world by saying I'm not gonna just stay in my own world I'm gonna declare myself to someone else. Especially when a woman of value, someone can react in a negative way.

But knowing that things can go wrong and if you try enough times will go wrong, can you still find the courage to put yourself in the battlefield of love?
Will you look the one you want in the eye and say I am here in some way in a voice she can hear.

Have you ever seen someone do wrong to someone and you're like Wow that should break them, but instead you see them return with even more kindness.
You felt pain from your past but you don't carry it to the next person because you need to give each person a new chance.

Speaking of chances, I say it again, take a chance! Try for what you really want, the universe feels your energy.
Are you really ready to die for what you believe in?
I know you can get that woman of your dreams, be with her for eternity and live the life you want.

I believe in you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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